Be a real person
Use your own identity, current photos, correct age, and honest relationship intentions. Impersonation and deceptive profiles are not allowed.
✦ The Datefinder promise
Connection needs
good boundaries.
These rules apply to every profile, request, and conversation. Breaking them can result in removal without warning.
Consent comes first
A match is not permission for sexual, intrusive, or repeated unwanted messages. Respect a “no,” a pass, and silence.
One connection at a time
When a request is accepted, discovery pauses for both people. End the connection respectfully before meeting someone new.
No hate or harassment
Threats, stalking, bullying, discrimination, blackmail, and sharing another person’s private information are prohibited.
No scams or solicitation
Never request money, financial details, passwords, verification codes, explicit content, or promote commercial services.
Date safely
Keep early conversations on-platform, meet in a public place, tell someone you trust, arrange your own transport, and report suspicious behavior.
18+ only
Datefinder is exclusively for adults. Anyone suspected of being under 18 will be removed immediately.